The Deaf culture is a very interesting one and one that I fully enjoyed immersing myself in.  I have a lot of Deaf friends and have taken American Sign Language classes in the past.  I was hoping to learn something that I did not already have previous knowledge of because of my previous experience with Deaf people.  I know I do not know everything about their culture even though I have many Deaf friends and I was excited to find something new.

Most of research results were things I had experienced with my friends and classes.  I read about how open most Deaf people are.  They are very straight forward and prefer you speak directly to them instead of trying to avoid them.  They are accommodating and will try to help you understand them if you can't.  Many do not perceive themselves as having a handicap and will not worry about or seek ways to correct their hearing deficit.  They have a rich culture and language and are wonderful people to learn about.

One new thing I did learn was that there is a difference in the way they describe themselves.  There is deaf and there is Deaf.  People who associate with the culture, do not see themselves as handicapped, have mainly Deaf friends, and do not try to live within the hearing community are considered Deaf.  Those who do not learn sign language, try to be as close to hearing culture as they can, and try to fix their hearing loss are termed deaf.  Another thing I learned is that Deaf people tend not to seek healthcare because they feel like caregivers see them as having a disability and often leave feeling traumatized or worse than when they arrived.

I am very saddened by that last bit of information about the barrier between caregivers and Deaf people.  I would never want to create those feelings in another person whether it is because they are Deaf or not.  I know that there are translators available, but even with translators, I will still try my best to treat Deaf people as normal and listen intently to what they communicate and make them feel welcome.  There is no reason for them to unwelcome when they are seeking healthcare and there are always ways to communicate without words.

I love and appreciate the Deaf culture and everything they offer.  All the Deaf people I have met and had the privilege of associating with have been very courteous, kind, patient, and willing to talk.  They are honest and blunt but so good about it.  I like being able to communicate more with my hands and body movements and be able to read people honestly instead of hoping to catch the tone of their voice correctly.  It is so wonderful to spend time with Deaf people and I love all those that I have the privilege of having in my life.